Going to a Gem Show: How to Stay Safe (and Low-Key)
Every year, gem shows roll around and I feel the same mix of excitement and overwhelm. There’s nothing quite like being surrounded by trays of stones, strands of beads, and materials you mostly just see online. It’s inspiring, energizing… and worth being thoughtful about how you move through the space.
A mentor said something to me that has really stuck:
it’s not what you have, it’s what others think you have.
Most people at gem shows are there for the same reason you are—to buy stones, talk shop, and geek out over materials. This isn’t meant to scare you or make you anxious—it’s simply about being aware of your surroundings. A little awareness goes a long way, and it allows you to relax and actually enjoy the experience.
(this is how I dress going to the gem show: casual outfit, comfy shoes, minimal/low key jewelry, and my over the shoulder purse)
Keep It Low-Profile
Gem shows aren’t the place to signal “I might be carrying something valuable.” Skip flashy jewelry, designer bags, or anything that draws extra attention. Neutral clothing and a simple, functional bag help you blend in—and blending in is a good thing.
Choose the Right Bag
Bag choice matters more than people realize. Backpacks might seem practical, but if you can’t see your bag, you can’t see what’s happening with it. Open totes are also an easy target.
A small to medium crossbody bag with a zipper is ideal—it stays in front of you, close to your body, and within your line of sight. If you’re carrying stones or materials, keep them fully zipped and out of view whenever possible.
Keep Purchases With You
It can be tempting to run things out to the car, but I think it’s safer to keep your purchases with you. Cars are easy targets, especially in busy gem show parking areas. If you bought it, it stays with you.
Stay Aware, Not Anxious
Pay attention to who’s around you. If someone feels too close, too curious, or makes you uncomfortable, trust that instinct. Move toward a busier area, stop at a vendor booth, or check in with show staff. You don’t need to explain yourself—this is about awareness, not fear.
Travel Smart
If you’re attending with friends, stick together when you can. Let someone know where you are, especially if you’re traveling solo. And consider waiting to share gem show finds online until you’re home—real-time posts can unintentionally signal that you’re carrying valuables.
Gem shows should be fun, inspiring, and creatively energizing. Being aware of your surroundings helps keep them that way.
Go slow, stay observant, and remember:
it’s not what you have, it’s what others think you have.
For tips about attending the Tucson Gem show, read my blog post from last year: Tucson's A Gem: Your guide to attending the Tucson Gem Show for the first time!
